Sex should be pleasurable. It should make you smile and feel happy. It should make you feel closer to your partner and strengthen your emotional and physical bond. But when sex is bad, it sucks in so many ways. We have the right to good sex. Good sex is good for us, for our partner and mostly for our relationship. Don’t put up with bad sex – do something about it. Here’s a list of 5 ways to deal with Bad Sex:
- VERBAL ENCOURAGEMENT
You can guide your partner to the right actions by verbally encouraging when they start to do something that you actually enjoy. The more you tell them that its feels great when they do “THAT”, the more they will do it! People like a little feedback with regards to which of their moves, so don’t be afraid to voice your opinions and guide them towards giving you more pleasure!
- TAKE CONTROL
Hey, if what they’re doing isn’t working for you, then it’s time to mix things up and take control in order to guide the love making in a direction that pleases you as much as it pleases the other. Hopefully they will be perceptive and pick up on what makes you hot and bothered and they can learn for future reference what parts of your sex life are your favorite and what parts you skipped all together! Also, it’s good for you to take turns in control; sexual equality for all!
- TRY DIFFERENT POSITIONS
If you tend to stick just to boring old missionary then there is a chance that your lack of enjoyment is stemming from boredom and the fact that your sex life has gone a bit stale. I’m not saying get the Karma Sutra out, but it can be fun and invigorating to try out a few different positions every now and then to spice it up a little bit. You never know, you might discover a position that hits the spot better than any other and your problems could be solved!
- DON’T FAKE IT
No matter how sorry you feel for them, you should never fake it. Faking it gives your partner a false sense of satisfaction with regard to their sexual ability, and if you want to rectify the situation you have to let them see that they’re not quite getting you there and must try harder to bring you ultimate pleasure.
- GIVE HIM IDEAS
Get your juices flowing by telling them some of your biggest sexual fantasies. Guiding them in the right direction will definitely help you to feel greater pleasure and they will be grateful that you trusted them enough to open up like that and they will also love that you have chosen them to be a part of your deepest fantasies.
It’s a tricky subject but bad sex doesn’t get better unless you do something about it. Here’s a video of some people who just had great sex!