5 Ways to Deal with Bad Sex

Sex should be pleasurable. It should make you smile and feel happy. It should make you feel closer to your partner and strengthen your emotional and physical bond. But when sex is bad, it sucks in so many ways. We have the right to good sex. Good sex is good for us, for our partner and mostly for our relationship. Don’t put up with bad sex – do something about it. Here’s a list of 5 ways to deal with Bad Sex:

  • VERBAL ENCOURAGEMENT

    You can guide your partner to the right actions by verbally encouraging when they start to do something that you actually enjoy. The more you tell them that its feels great when they do “THAT”, the more they will do it! People like a little feedback with regards to which of their moves, so don’t be afraid to voice your opinions and guide them towards giving you more pleasure!

  • TAKE CONTROL

    Hey, if what they’re doing isn’t working for you, then it’s time to mix things up and take control in order to guide the love making in a direction that pleases you as much as it pleases the other. Hopefully they will be perceptive and pick up on what makes you hot and bothered and they can learn for future reference what parts of your sex life are your favorite and what parts you skipped all together! Also, it’s good for you to take turns in control; sexual equality for all!

  • TRY DIFFERENT POSITIONS

    If you tend to stick just to boring old missionary then there is a chance that your lack of enjoyment is stemming from boredom and the fact that your sex life has gone a bit stale. I’m not saying get the Karma Sutra out, but it can be fun and invigorating to try out a few different positions every now and then to spice it up a little bit. You never know, you might discover a position that hits the spot better than any other and your problems could be solved!

  • DON’T FAKE IT

    No matter how sorry you feel for them, you should never fake it. Faking it gives your partner a false sense of satisfaction with regard to their sexual ability, and if you want to rectify the situation you have to let them see that they’re not quite getting you there and must try harder to bring you ultimate pleasure.

  • GIVE HIM IDEAS

    Get your juices flowing by telling them some of your biggest sexual fantasies. Guiding them in the right direction will definitely help you to feel greater pleasure and they will be grateful that you trusted them enough to open up like that and they will also love that you have chosen them to be a part of your deepest fantasies.

It’s a tricky subject but bad sex doesn’t get better unless you do something about it. Here’s a video of some people who just had great sex!

7 reasons why Make-up Sex is the best Sex!

Make-up sex is in a category all on it’s own. It’s normal for a couple to have make-up sex after an argument. Most couples would agree that make-up sex has something extra special about it that their other times of being intimate don’t have. Let’s talk about why that is.

  1. YOU’RE EMOTIONS ARE RUNNING HIGH

    After an argument, it’s typical for your emotions to be running high. That means that your attraction for each other is running high, too. You may notice how sexy your guy is in a whole new way as you’re making up. It’s almost as if your bodies crave make-up sex. It’s nice to experience positive emotions in place of the negative emotions you were feeling.

  2. IT’S EASY TO TRANSFER PASSION FROM THE ISSUE YOU’VE BEEN FIGHTING OVER TO PASSION FOR EACH OTHER

    Arguments take passion. Your feelings are very strong about whatever issue you’ve been disagreeing over. Once you resolve the argument and reach a place of compromise, the passion can still be strong. It’s easy to transfer that passion to sexual desire. Your passion has to go somewhere; make-up sex is a great place for it to go.

  3. IT’S UNIQUE IN AND OF ITSELF

    Make-up sex is unique. It usually isn’t like your usual sexual experiences. It can be easy for your sex life to fall into a rut. Make-up sex can break you out of that rut and spice #things up. You may have an even stronger desire for one another than you usually do.

  4. IT CAN INSPIRE YOU TO TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT

    For some reason, it seems as if make-up sex can inspire you to try something different. You may want to try a different position. You might even want to switch up the location where you have sex. It’s great to embrace that sense of being adventurous together. Your relationship is sure to benefit from breaking out of the norm.

  5. IT’S A WAY TO GET BACK ON TRACK

    Arguments are a normal part of being in a relationship; they just happen from time to #time. But that doesn’t make them enjoyable. Make-up sex is a great way to get past the argument and get back on track as a couple. It’s as if you’re both saying that you’re ready to put the fight behind you and move forward. It’s actually a very healthy thing for your relationship to have make-up sex.

  6. YOU QUICKLY REMEMBER WHY YOU LOVE EACH OTHER

    If you need a reminder of why you first fell in love, make-up sex can give that to you. In fact, you’ll probably feel a lot of the feelings you felt early on in your relationship when you have make-up sex. It’s wonderful to get to experience those feelings again. Arguments can make you feel distant from one another but they can also remind you to appreciate what you have in your relationship. Enjoy those feelings of gratitude for the special bond you have.

  7. MAKE-UP SEX IS ALL ABOUT RECONNECTION

    Most of all, make-up sex is about reconnection. After an argument where you’ve been hurt, it’s only natural to crave reconnecting with one another. Make-up sex is the perfect way to do that. You know that your #relationship is back on the right footing. And after all, who doesn’t love to kiss and make-up?

8 Reasons Not to Follow Fashion Trends …

There are a number of very good reasons not to follow fashion trends. So if you just cannot face wearing anything that’s deemed fashionable, don’t worry. It doesn’t matter if you are wearing what is “in” or not; what’s more important is to wear what you like and what suits you. Here are some excellent reasons not to follow fashion trends …

  1. They’re becoming more and more RIDICULOUS
    • One of the top reasons not to follow fashion trends is that fashion can be utterly ridiculous. It’s often said that catwalk trends are not meant to be worn in real life, and that they filter down to high street stores in a more wearable and diluted form. But unless you have a strong personality, why wear something that makes you look ridiculous?
  2. You just can’t be INDIVIDUAL anymore
    • Is there anything more annoying than seeing several people wearing the same item you’ve just bought? This is a common problem when shops carry what they deem to be fashionable. The items are often so distinctive that you will easily recognize them on someone else. Avoiding fashion means that you’re more likely to dress in an individual style.
  3. Simply be DIFFERENT
    • By refusing to follow fashion, you will be making a statement that you are different. Your style is not dictated by magazines, designers or stores. Isn’t it much more interesting to wear what you like, rather than be influenced by #people who just want to make money out of you?
  4. It will be UTTERLY UNFLATTERING
    • Fashion can be deeply unflattering. Just look back at old photos of yourself and you will realize how awful you looked in the fashions of the time! The problem with fashion is that it dates very easily. So wear clothes that #look good on you, regardless of whether they are “in” or not.
  5. DICTATED BY MAGAZINES
    • Magazines can be fun to #read, but they can exert quite an influence on your idea of what you should be wearing. Of course, the magazines are in turn dictated to by designers, who demand substantial coverage in return for letting their clothes be featured. So enjoy reading magazines by all means, but be aware of how they manipulate readers.
  6. It CHANGE a lot and fast
    • The truly irritating thing about fashion is how quickly it changes. So you may buy an item that soon becomes perceived as dated. One minute, flared pants are in … then they’re out … then they’re in again. How can we keep up?!
  7. Why do it if it’s NOT YOUR STYLE?
    • Fashion is all very well, but if it just isn’t “you,” then leave it well alone! Some fashions depend very much on your size, build and personality. If something that is in fashion just doesn’t work on you, pick something that does. Who cares if it is “in” or not?
  8. And if WAIT LONG ENOUGH it will come back
    • Whatever you like will come back into fashion! So if you’re particularly fond of skinny jeans, don’t worry if boyfriend jeans are deemed this season’s style. Sooner or later (and probably sooner, in the fast-moving world of fashion), your skinny jeans will again be the latest style.

Fashion should be fun, so don’t be a slave to it. You’ll just end up spending lots of money to replace perfectly good clothes, and may wear items that just don’t suit you. Or you’ll be down because you know the latest style doesn’t work for you. Never mind that – wear what is right for you. How do you feel about fashion – is it a waste of time, or do you love looking out for the latest styles?